Options In Our Life

It has been quite a while I have not touched and write anything in my blog. But tonight I was buzzed by my brain to let my emotions flow after thinking so much, what have got into me and my feelings lately. Sigh.... (sound serious)... hurmmm but after Isya prayer and recited Yassin just now, I took a cup of ...well 3 in 1 coffee contains caffeine but also with collagen, kacip fatimah and all sort of you-know-what-all-in-one..... This was not normal to me and I guess this was my first time taking coffee at 11.45 pm, saturday night. However, I still sought medical advise just now to make me feel alright about caffeine at night...( hik3x)..

Last weekend, I sacrifice my weekend to attend...well refreshed my knowledge background in Islamic Financial and this time particularly Takaful. I guess this is one of the thing that made me worry as I have the knowledge about this for ages. Obtained my license to advise and share to people especially Muslims but I guess I just ignore and dump in those to don't know where. Wow! more than 15 years???!!! (Gosh!!!) I think I have been selfish and irresponsible to people particularly my friends, family and relatives due to my negligence.

Well let me straight to the point, those who are concern about their basic religion, family, financial status and not only duniawi, my advise do hijrah to Takaful and other Islamic Financial products if you have options...

I have been exposed to Islamic Financing and Economics since I was in  my college years and my final project was also related to the matter. During my working experience in banking, those were the early years where banks were starting to introduce Islamic Financial products and I remembered struggling to introduce and explain to customers the unique criteria of the products. Surprisingly, I found it was so much fun and challenging at the same time as they were not new to me due to my little education background about them.

However, I left banks for quite sometimes but suppose to continue my effort in promoting and sharing the knowledge through Takaful but I failed to do so due to my own weakness. Alhamdullillah, probably this will be my wake up call and to those who read this... You have your way to think and decide.

Nowaday, there are 8 licence Takaful released by Bank Negara Malaysia and you may have options to choose but choose wisely as the background of the parent companies and holding companies may trigger your decisions in so many ways.

 

http://www.takaful-ikhlas.com.my/

In brief: Takaful is base on Tabarru Concept (Sedeqah) whilst Insurans is base on Buy-Sell Concept... (Contact me for further detail and explaination..:))

Ibarat hubungan dan perasaan orang-orang beriman sesama mereka adalah seperti jasad,  apabila  salah satu  daripadanya ditimpa kesusahan, maka seluruhanggota yang  lain juga akan merasainya."

(Diriwayatkan oleh Imam al-Bukhari dan Imam Muslim) 

"Demi hayatku berada dalam kekuasaan Allah, tiada siapa akan masuk Syurga jika beliau tidak  melindungi jirannya yang berada dalam kesusahan."

(Diriwayatkan oleh Imam al-Bukhari dan Imam Muslim)

"Allah SWT akan sentiasa membantu hambaNya selagi mereka saling membantu antara  sama  lain"

(Diriwayatkan oleh Imam Ahmad dan Imam Abu Daud)

Health Tips 2 (Continous Session...)

Hurmmm...that is my first remark after trying hard to keep my eyes wide open to write this post. Ada pearl cafe and jambu air yang aku tengah ngadap ni nak hilangkan ngantuk. Apart from facing my lappy and find something interesting...My best hobby is sleep....Zzzzzzzz

Ok, let me start about what I would like to share. Recently, I was offered to be Online stockist for NONA ROGUY products starting from May 2010 which I caught me by surprise as I have gone through some kind of short tele-interview. Yeah, I have been with the products since more than 10 years and member of Nona Roguy since 2003 and what I can say about the products are proven good but the effects may be varies to different people.

When I was first introduced to the products, the Jamu came in sachets with in a form of powder and they were called Jamu tiga beradik, Those days were my anak dara days and I was quite tak bole duduk diam, pergi swimming, gym lah and jogging.

Later on, get married, then when I got 1st pregnancy, 2nd and 3rd pregnancy with each pregnancy I gained more almost 20 kg from my original weight before pregnant. During my 1st pregnancy, I was not sure whether I really can have my weight reduced like before... however, when I consume Nona roguy set bersalin, I have no worries in addition to berpantang and discipline myself.

I have to admit that 3 pregnancies, I took 2 different set bersalin for each pregnancy and the 3rd preggy I took Nona Roguy's set during confinement. Do not ask me why I took different products during my first 2 preggy (masa tu macam gatal nak try yang lain), even after those days I still proceed with Nona roguy products.

when I stopped taking NR few years back (2007)

However, to tell you the truth, I found Nona roguy gave me the best, safe and easy steps to follow during pantang maklum lah feeling sick and weak. Not forgetting, aku ni beranak all 3 of my babies through ceasarian and aku have no worries on my wounds, breastfeeding and anak jaundice. I even get my anak dara weight back for the next almost 1 year after giving birth to my 3rd baby with minimal diet habit. 

And now, I cant leave home without this products from minyak urut, minyak mustajab and herbs tablets...

The products are suitable for ladies and gentlemen, orang tua dan muda. Anyone who would like to try the products, you can place your order to me or through the official website as per appended here.

http://www.nr4u.com.my/index7.php?refid=4344


Diskaun 10% sempena hari Ibu dan Hari Guru untuk semua produk NR kecuali set edisi konsert sah dari 20 April hingga 17 May 2010 untuk semua negara. Ini adalah untuk online member/dealer yang sudah registered. All together will be 20% diskaun.

However, after this period, I will still be giving all my FB friends discount up to 15% (courier service is NOT included,i.e RM10 - semenanjung Msia, RM15- Sabah & Sarawak)


This is my recent photo.

Kindly, make your order thru my FB, my blog and I will contact you ASAP for payment and shipment arrangement.

Have a great and healthy day ahead.

You Are A Stronger Woman in and outside!!!

Lately I was quite excited to start my blog back... Actually so many things I wanted to share with all of you. But the one that triggered me the most was the true story about a friend of mine who is currently a single super mom. She shared her true life story recently, that shut my voice but remained my mouth wide opened throughout her sharing session!!! 

I just really could not believe that there are such women who could bear such painful and suffering life for the past more than 18 years with a cruel husband and 'produced' beautiful kids at the same time. All this while, I just read in the newspapers, mags, heard from mouth to mouth and probably watching some kind of pathetic malay and indon movies (i personally categorized that).... all about agony, pain, suffering and sadness.... Dang! penatlah...nangis jek...nanti dehydrated lak!!!

To me, (macam berlagak lah aku ni pulak!) sometimes those movies did not make any rational and logical sense of normal human character that make me sick to watch and said 'Bodoh lah punye cerita...Mana ada orang macam ni punye bodoh and baik sangat! Allah bagi otak pikir je lah!!!!'. Hehehe sorry... Those are my favourite  'quotes' when watching most malay/indon movies...Although they made me pissed (Oppppsss!!! sorry...) But still they made me cried....huhuhuhu....Da*%$#!!!

So before I get carried away, I did wrote few stories about wives being abused and how divorce was the best way out ever. But this time, I was so surprised, sad and unbelievable shocked on how certain men could do such things to their wives and 'brainless' things to their own flesh and blood...KIDS...the most precious gifts on earth... Maybe just because she, herself told me all about it and it gave me ('slap!!!...ouuccchh!!) wake up call!!.

My dear friend was being hit and abused ever since she got married to his husband who  has such professional and reputable career. At first she thought it was just his rare character whenever he got angry 'overloaded'. Plus, she loved her husband and tried hard to save the marriage and of course did not want to disgrace her husband...(Yeah...right!!! tried me then!!! let me spank him for her!!!) But until she had 4 girls, the abusive act getting worst ,even to his own kids, the 4 lovely girls. 

What made my tears ran out were a few incidents such as ,he pushed and thumped hard his little girl's head to the wall few times whenever he was outraged, and he did dripped melting candle  on one of his toddler girl's legs just to make sure that she could feel pain and not some kind of kid with handicapped legs. 

Let me ask you??? What type of dad would do such thing to any of his kids... not to mentioned if other kids who are not their own flesh and blood. Consequence to his act, which is just my blunt assumptions and without any proven facts from any medical expertise, one of his girls, is on wheelchair, cannot walk normally and another one is under regular check up due to 'something blood clot' in her brain.

I guess after more than 18 years they have been together in as a family, Allah showed my friend that she deserves better life and their marriage has came to the end when he decided to marry other younger 'lady' (which I am trying to control my words here not to call her 'b****') which he thought could give him more better kids and divorced my friend in front of the so-called-perfect-lady. I am not gonna talked about how the lady won his heart by ruining and torn this family apart, enough to tell you that, he thought that my friend was not a perfect wife and not attractive anymore.

Well, every beginnings has endings and now, I am so happy for this lovely lady-super woman-incredible mom-and-friend of mine because she did becoming better and stronger person i ever met... All the best to you babe!!! 

My questions are to all of you, what is your level of perfect wives or husbands or even in a person?What is perfect to you? Are perfect person and you claimed to be perfectionist? Then the answer is all in you!!!...

I just .... don't want to think for awhile....

For the past few days I have been tired thinking and worrying about bunch of things... I guess.. I just need to listen to something 'soothing' and sexy to my ears... I just wanted to post this 2 songs by britt's lad Shayne Ward.. It just remind me of someone ...

These lyrics should be dedicated to wives by all hubbies...

 
Breathless

If our love was a fairytale
I would charge in and rescue you
On a yacht baby we would sail
To an island where we’d say I do

And if we had babies they would look like you
It’d be so beautiful if that came true
You don’t even know how very special you are

You leave me breathless
You’re everything good in my life
You leave me breathless
I still can’t believe that you’re mine
You just walked out of one of my dreams
So beautiful you’re leaving me
Breathless

And if our love was a story book
We would meet on the very first page
The last chapter would be about
How I’m thankful for the life we’ve made

And if we had babies they would have your eyes
I would fall deeper watching you give life
You don’t even know how very special you are

You must have been sent from heaven to earth to change me
You’re like an angel
The thing that I feel is stronger than love believe me
You’re something special
I only hope that I’ll one day deserve what you’ve given me
But all I can do is try
Every day of my life

Until You

Baby life was good to me
But you just made it better
I love the way you stand by me
Through any kind of weather
I dont wanna run away
Just wanna make your day
When you fell the world is on your shoulders
Don't wanna make it worse
Just wanna make us work
Baby tell me i will do whatever
It feels like nobody ever knew me until you knew me
Feels like nobody ever loved me until you loved me
Feels like nobody ever touched me until you touched me
Baby nobody, nobody,until you

Baby it just took one hit of you now I'm addicted
You never know what's missing
Till you get everything you need,yeah
I don't wanna run away
Just wanna make your day
When you feel the world is on your shoulders
Don't wanna make it worse
Just wanna make us work
Baby tell me,I'll do whatever
It feels like nobody ever knew me until you know me

Feels like nobody ever loved me until you loved me
Feels like nobody ever touched me until you touched me
Baby,nobody,nobody until you
See it was enough to know

If I ever let you go
I would be no one
Cos I never thought I'd feel
All the things you made me feel
Wasn't looking for someone until you

Nobody, nobody, until you

HI TO ALL

It has been almost a year I left my blog... :( Quite awkward to restart something when you have left them for quite sometimes. So many things to write but so little time left everyday for me to spend for this. Gosh! Am i sound so serious???!! Kah kah kah!

Anyway what I wanted to share is... I felt bless for having new friends, found old friends back and  still having dear and loyal friends with me. One of the platform that my old dear friends found me and vice verse is through Facebook. I believe that most of us agree on this when you are one of the facebook member.

People have their own opinion on how they perceive this kind of platform, but to me I take it positively. Facebook managed to reunite most of my more-than-10-years school and college friends. We exchange our life updates and having 'virtual' fun discreetly or openly!

Okay, I guess I better stop for a start.. :)

sleepy already...

LEGENDARY MICHEAL JACKSON...

I have not write any posts for more than 1 month now... Tight up with personal matters, commitments and works...

It was early in the morning when as usual, I get in my car, send my kids to their kindergarten, then I on ERA radio station, drove to my work place, when suddenly I had a terrible shocked when Aznil voice was so un'lively' as he used to be and kept on repeating the lost of the most living legend of the world...the Pop Superstar, Micheal Jackson on 25 June 2009 morning. I was..'OMG...Ya Allah...all that unbelievable' remarks came out from my mouth... and all the radio stations were like having MJ songs all over again... Suddenly... my tears ran through my cheeks without even think about anything but the Great Ones! Allah.... I know I couldn't question His decision but... I was like...not MJ...not him yet...Again...who am I in this world...later, we definitely be the next one!!!

MJ was always my Pop idol, the best ones! I remember back on 30 August 1993, I went to MJ concert in Singapore with the whole family, Cik Aleh, Cik Zizah, Cik Ida, Arwah Cik Khalid, mak, ayah, Allis, Faiz, Fairuz and Lut... It was a blast!!! Even we only bought the cheapest tickets, the concert was Incredible! We even have to buy binocullars to have a better vision of MJ...

Now...we lost the great pop musician, performer, singer, song producer and artist regardless his controversial life, looks, appearance, cases and scandals... I don't think anyone or any artist will ever replace him... His musics was a new revolution to the world, breakthrough artist and as Jackson exits stage left, he leaves behind a legacy that in its own way.

Till the end of his life...still controvesial hits the world, the cause of his death as well as his funeral. He embraced Islam and verified by his owned brother Jermaine Jackson in November 2008. No matter what Allah knows better...May Allah bless him...

Amiiin...to True World Music Idol...

Salam to all...I was trying to write something for the past few days but daily routine prohibited me to do so plus I was so tired because just recovered from sore eyes...

Well, I just want to write something about health product which I personally experience... I am not a direct selling type of person but sometime I did join certain membership of some product a.k.a MLM just for my own used and consumed.

It was a few months back through Facebook...(hehehe...really work for me to trace back my old buddies), I found my dearest best friend that I have not seen her for more than 20 years. She is a medical practitioner doctor and also an aesthetician as part of her medical practice at her clinics. We were so thrilled to find each other and for me I was extra excited because she can actually consult me for free...hikhikhik (thank you Gee'in...)...

She and her other MD friend introduced me to the 'Golden Clam' product by Biogreeno. At first I was quite worried if it was not safe product and it will be like some other supplement products in the market which I will not find any changes in me or may have side effects later. However, as the 'Golden Clam' was recommended by my own friend and she is a doctor cum aesthetician and she herself consume it, so I decided to try myself. Her other doctor friend, Dr Zul did finalised my decision because he was the research doctor for the product to the company before they could allow legally to Malaysia. He has to make sure the content, ingredients of the supplements are halal and etc.

She told me that after I consumed the right way, I will be able to see the result and should be happy about it. I did asked her how she could maintain her flawless and youthful looking skin. But she told me ...

'Well actually all of us will be having skin problems due to age factors but I have to walk the talk...and I have to look fresh and not haggard skin or problematic skin especially to my patients'...

However, what interesting about her is...she won't take placenta or vitamin C injection or something like that because...she is afraid of needles.... hahahaha... she said...Her job is to 'poke' needle to her patients but don't ever poke her unneccessarily...

So I took 'golden clam' for about 5 months now for my body health and skin particularly...and my tesmonial about the product is... I feel my whole skin is smoother and softer, my abs strech marks due to pregnancies also visibly reduce by 85%..but if I were to show to you...(takan lah nak tunjukkan?) it seemed not there anymore... The best if someone else notice the smoothness of your skin...then better you feel great lah kan!!!

For facial testinomy it will take a little more time to see good result if you have problematic facial skin but it will be fast if your get proper treatment from proper aesthetician. I would recommend you go and see medical doctor who have aesthetic licence. But if you dont have facial skin problem, your face will glow and look fresh...(unless selalu tak cukup tido macam i...huhuhu)

Anyway, this golden clam is actually will cleanse your liver and help detoxifications. I am not good in explaining the scientific facts and advantages...maybe you could browse to the following link later.

http://www.biogreeno.com/en/products_clam.jsp

She also have few facial products that she recommended me after skin consultation and I found the products recomended by her are good and affordable. She recommended me CLIV facial treatment products and I think I'll share with you when I have a chance to get the catalogue from her...

She also have a very high end products for more effective and fast results but with the right treatment and proper consultation. The thing is...you should have enough budget or luxury budget for that...huhuhuhu...you should check out Cosmelan...it is used by the plastic surgeons and constructive surgeon..(something like that lah...) all around the world for treatment after surgery.

It is quite troublesome for me to see her actually because we live quite apart from each other, I am in JB and she is in Shah Alam/KL. If I really have the opportunity (and budget tooo...hehehehe) I will seek for her consultation and gentle treatment monthly... Nice to be 'pampered' once in awhile by your best 'girl school buddy' but in a proffessional cause...(hurmmm do I make sense???...)

So anyone who would like to contact her for consultation and treatment at her clinics, Shah Alam or KL, do drop your email at nurin83@live.com. Please serious ye...those spammers will be filtered OUT! Well I will paste the photo of my good buddy, Dr Muzvin and of course with her permission tau! (Gee'in...kena bagi aku commission nih!!! Gambar kau ni dah lawan towkeh blog nih...mana boleh...hehehe )..

OK...till then to my next post everyone...bye...