LEGENDARY MICHEAL JACKSON...

I have not write any posts for more than 1 month now... Tight up with personal matters, commitments and works...

It was early in the morning when as usual, I get in my car, send my kids to their kindergarten, then I on ERA radio station, drove to my work place, when suddenly I had a terrible shocked when Aznil voice was so un'lively' as he used to be and kept on repeating the lost of the most living legend of the world...the Pop Superstar, Micheal Jackson on 25 June 2009 morning. I was..'OMG...Ya Allah...all that unbelievable' remarks came out from my mouth... and all the radio stations were like having MJ songs all over again... Suddenly... my tears ran through my cheeks without even think about anything but the Great Ones! Allah.... I know I couldn't question His decision but... I was like...not MJ...not him yet...Again...who am I in this world...later, we definitely be the next one!!!

MJ was always my Pop idol, the best ones! I remember back on 30 August 1993, I went to MJ concert in Singapore with the whole family, Cik Aleh, Cik Zizah, Cik Ida, Arwah Cik Khalid, mak, ayah, Allis, Faiz, Fairuz and Lut... It was a blast!!! Even we only bought the cheapest tickets, the concert was Incredible! We even have to buy binocullars to have a better vision of MJ...

Now...we lost the great pop musician, performer, singer, song producer and artist regardless his controversial life, looks, appearance, cases and scandals... I don't think anyone or any artist will ever replace him... His musics was a new revolution to the world, breakthrough artist and as Jackson exits stage left, he leaves behind a legacy that in its own way.

Till the end of his life...still controvesial hits the world, the cause of his death as well as his funeral. He embraced Islam and verified by his owned brother Jermaine Jackson in November 2008. No matter what Allah knows better...May Allah bless him...

Amiiin...to True World Music Idol...

Salam to all...I was trying to write something for the past few days but daily routine prohibited me to do so plus I was so tired because just recovered from sore eyes...

Well, I just want to write something about health product which I personally experience... I am not a direct selling type of person but sometime I did join certain membership of some product a.k.a MLM just for my own used and consumed.

It was a few months back through Facebook...(hehehe...really work for me to trace back my old buddies), I found my dearest best friend that I have not seen her for more than 20 years. She is a medical practitioner doctor and also an aesthetician as part of her medical practice at her clinics. We were so thrilled to find each other and for me I was extra excited because she can actually consult me for free...hikhikhik (thank you Gee'in...)...

She and her other MD friend introduced me to the 'Golden Clam' product by Biogreeno. At first I was quite worried if it was not safe product and it will be like some other supplement products in the market which I will not find any changes in me or may have side effects later. However, as the 'Golden Clam' was recommended by my own friend and she is a doctor cum aesthetician and she herself consume it, so I decided to try myself. Her other doctor friend, Dr Zul did finalised my decision because he was the research doctor for the product to the company before they could allow legally to Malaysia. He has to make sure the content, ingredients of the supplements are halal and etc.

She told me that after I consumed the right way, I will be able to see the result and should be happy about it. I did asked her how she could maintain her flawless and youthful looking skin. But she told me ...

'Well actually all of us will be having skin problems due to age factors but I have to walk the talk...and I have to look fresh and not haggard skin or problematic skin especially to my patients'...

However, what interesting about her is...she won't take placenta or vitamin C injection or something like that because...she is afraid of needles.... hahahaha... she said...Her job is to 'poke' needle to her patients but don't ever poke her unneccessarily...

So I took 'golden clam' for about 5 months now for my body health and skin particularly...and my tesmonial about the product is... I feel my whole skin is smoother and softer, my abs strech marks due to pregnancies also visibly reduce by 85%..but if I were to show to you...(takan lah nak tunjukkan?) it seemed not there anymore... The best if someone else notice the smoothness of your skin...then better you feel great lah kan!!!

For facial testinomy it will take a little more time to see good result if you have problematic facial skin but it will be fast if your get proper treatment from proper aesthetician. I would recommend you go and see medical doctor who have aesthetic licence. But if you dont have facial skin problem, your face will glow and look fresh...(unless selalu tak cukup tido macam i...huhuhu)

Anyway, this golden clam is actually will cleanse your liver and help detoxifications. I am not good in explaining the scientific facts and advantages...maybe you could browse to the following link later.

http://www.biogreeno.com/en/products_clam.jsp

She also have few facial products that she recommended me after skin consultation and I found the products recomended by her are good and affordable. She recommended me CLIV facial treatment products and I think I'll share with you when I have a chance to get the catalogue from her...

She also have a very high end products for more effective and fast results but with the right treatment and proper consultation. The thing is...you should have enough budget or luxury budget for that...huhuhuhu...you should check out Cosmelan...it is used by the plastic surgeons and constructive surgeon..(something like that lah...) all around the world for treatment after surgery.

It is quite troublesome for me to see her actually because we live quite apart from each other, I am in JB and she is in Shah Alam/KL. If I really have the opportunity (and budget tooo...hehehehe) I will seek for her consultation and gentle treatment monthly... Nice to be 'pampered' once in awhile by your best 'girl school buddy' but in a proffessional cause...(hurmmm do I make sense???...)

So anyone who would like to contact her for consultation and treatment at her clinics, Shah Alam or KL, do drop your email at nurin83@live.com. Please serious ye...those spammers will be filtered OUT! Well I will paste the photo of my good buddy, Dr Muzvin and of course with her permission tau! (Gee'in...kena bagi aku commission nih!!! Gambar kau ni dah lawan towkeh blog nih...mana boleh...hehehe )..

OK...till then to my next post everyone...bye...

Health tips experience

This time around I am going to start sharing with you my experience on health tips... I got some requests from my friends and relatives to share some experiences about my heatlh tips right after birth... Since a friend of mine just recently received a good news that she is positively pregnant by a doctor...I guess I may want to share my experience on the health tips during confinement which I think most of us have similar and different traditional ways and methods...

I may want to write in 'rojak' language as most of the practices are by us, Asian. However it is good to share our traditional remedies, treatments and 'pantang' with others...

Hmmm...actually I am not the expert in this...however they are all my mak's (my mom)traditional 'rules' and 'regulations' during confinement. As we all know the 'pantang' after birth will be like 44 days, about 1 and 1/2 months and for career moms, we will be getting 2 months maternity leave. But for me my 'pantang' goes up to 100 days...

Waduh!! if I skip, mak's mouth will never stop grumble, mumble and telling me my body will be this...my skin will be that...my face will look older than my age... You know how tired you will be when you are at this age to be scolded like you are a little girl. But Thank you mak!, I love you...huhuhuhu... if not... I'll be like 'tong drum'.

I've got my three kids through ceasarian and my mak will usually be taking care of me and new born baby my during the confinement period. Once the hospital discharged me... the 'pantang' starts for me and the baby. The first 1 month, it was usually like in the 'prison'... So my mak will be incharged...

I'll be usually probihited to go out of the house except for hospital check ups. In the morning until late afternoon, my hands and legs will be covered with param and my forehead will be covered with pilis...they are traditional 'powder' which you better dont asked me the ingredients... The smell...wow so...traditionally 'bitter'...

My abs and stomach will be tight with special corset which made from a long cloth and before i wear it, i have to put some jamu mixed with lime to apply on my stomach... Jangan tanya how the smell...huhuhu...I also have to wear socks and sweather even the day was so hot outside and I was sweating like so much! Do not take off your sweater nor your socks - warned my mak!!!! huhuhu

Early in the morning, usually I took jamu (traditional herbs) and we used to called it 'jamu rapat!'...hehehehe), milk and a piece of plain bread. Lunch time the menu will always be rice porridge with vegetables...jangan yang sejuk-sejuk but most of the time will be spinach, cabbage or kailan (produce more milk for breastfeeding), fish and haruans boiled (yuck!) and more fish and once a while meat but only boiled and soup menu...NO CHICKEN or EGG AND NO SEAFOODS...ONLY FISHES!!!! Nanti gatal and your wounds won't dry that fast plus the scar will obviously seen. In the evening the same menu and after that consume my jamu..lots of them and drink lots of plain warm water. Warm only huh...my mom kept on reminding....love you so much mak!!!!

I also need to get enough sleep that would be during the baby sleeps because as we all knows babies love to wake up at night just to have their 'supper', more late 'supper' and very very early breakfast like 3-4 am. ...No matter what I love all of you my little angels...

That was not all, I was prohibited to take bath for 1 week then after that, only 1 time per day with only warm water until 1 month. Usually I would continue my jamu as my supplements for at least 3 months, no cold water, no chicken and egg for 3 months too or at most 100 days. I would have to follow my mak pantang rules in my meals for the most 100 days. She asked me to maintain my jamu and meals if possible 4-5 months to maintain ideal weight and inner healing.

She told me the reasons behind all these rules will be seen immediate after my pantang and also later when I am getting much more older and will still maintain youthful skin and looks..Wah!

She did told me, the param and pilis were to make sure 'tak masuk angin', so our body would not easily feels aching here and there. The socks and sweater to make sure our body remains warm and those blood veins and whatevet veins lah..(urat-urat) won't appear on your skin espacially legs.

Vegetables and fish are the best meals for diet. Warm water is the best drink, milk will best for our bones for calcium absorbance, jamu is to maintain the inner healing of our body and to keep youthful looking skin and body figures. The special corset is to reduce the the bulging stomach after birth as well the jamu put on stomach is for reducing the strech mark.

Hmmm...I truly believe the 'pantang' rules paid off. Because everytime after my child delivery, I will reduce my weight much more faster and slimmer before I was pregnant. I also do not have much problem about aching here and there, I actually did not see any blood veins on my legs...Alhamdullillah...

I do not have much problems on major freckles, pimples and major wrinkles yet...and I also do not have major hair fall problem after delivery. Alhamdullillah...Ya Allah...all I want is for me to be healthy.... However, after 5 months and above...usually my problem will be I CANT REALLY MAINTAIN MY IDEAL WEIGHT...HUHUHU JUST BECAUSE...I CAN'T RESIST FOOD...huhuhuhu....

I need to change my diet and maybe find time to pamper myselt at sauna, swimming (like I used to do before married)....hurmmm if got lot of money..maybe should get slimming treatment for few sessions... Marie France, Mayfair, Slim World!!! Or maybe liposuction...huhuhuhu desperado lah tu!!

Well I am not really the good advisor for diet actually...but I have tips to share with you to maintain your ideal weight or reduce weight in my next post...I also consume supplement that really worked for me on strecthmark (actually visibilty disappears) and improve smoothness on my whole body skin....Okay...i need to sleep now...Salam & Cheerio

Bless to you ... Ladies...

I just read the sunday tabloids and papers and I felt SICK! Sick of all the stories, gossips and 'acting' that created by Malaysian celebrities... The thing that I am sick is when some celebrities were not that famous but being infamous for such controversial gossips such as... try to ruin someone else Marriage... Well, from last year, Abby-Norman, Nora Danish and now Ustaz Akhil Hayy- Waheeda. Not to mentioned non-celebrities, normal people like us...

Statistics showed that 80-85% broken marriages caused by 3rd person and betrayal. I could not agreed more. Lots of betrayal comes from husband and there are some from wives. Whatever it is the children will be victimised by the situation and confusion especially when they are still young.

I am not going to brag about this as I am no motivator, psychiatrist, marriage advisor or Psychologist. But what I want to share in my blog are some real stories that happened to my own dear friends and family members. It is up to you to believe or otherwise because I will protect their identities and privacies. To those who know who you are...I hope you do not mind for being anonymously letting me share them in my blog.

Story 1

She was just a housewife and married to a good looking man but didnt conceived any child until they were married for about 7 years. Then they had a boy but after the son was only about 8 years old, her husband past away. She had to struggle financially as she never work before. The savings and insurance from her late husband were not enough to survive for the best of her child. She did all the work that she could as she was not high educated.

I didnt have to tell what sort of jobs she did but as long they were 'halal' and clean in our religion. After 17 years she struggled just to get the best education and life for her son and neglecting her own personal need, the outcome paid-off. Now her son is becoming a real gentleman, good son, good person, respect others, protective to his mom, very well groomed guy, high educated and will be having tremendous career ahead. To you 'great' mom...you can just seat back and relax now...let your son row his boat... you've done great job! Don't worry much about him...pray for him.

Story 2

She is a good looking lady, no doubt about that. She had 3 great kids, great career, highly educated and great personalities. But men are just men, never enough when it comes to women. She was suffering for 3 years due to her husband betrayal and affair with other woman whom i think was low rank kind of lady... I ranked that due to her education level and even her looks. She caught her husband twice in 'the act' that made her lost her patience and finally his husband divorced her.

She was chased out from the house with her kids by her husband and her parents in-laws. She was devastated...didn't know where to go but finally Allah showed her the way. Even now she is still struggling financially, at least she live to her fullest as a single mother with her kids. As for her ex husband, he still try to make her life misarable in anyway...But God is Great...There will be time where suffering will be his 'friend' later. I hope she will find someone who can eventually love her and her kids and make her happy...because I don't think she ever lost her beauty after all the sufferings she had, but maybe she need to be cautious and careful of being hurt again.

Story 3

When this person told me this story I was like 'what??!!' is this a movie or what!? Is it real or just illusion? She was a great mom with a great 6 kids. I believe her earlier marriage was like anyone else, hope for the best, tried to be best wife, best mom and have best family...But sometimes never happened according to plan but they happened for reasons... She was left homeless with the kids... and the worst part her ex-husband poured boiling water on her face while she was asleep just to wake her up??!!

He was really hell of a psychopathic man! Well, the blessing was someone paid for her plastic surgery to fixed back her face and well now... she got new face but better looks and without wrinkles and freckles. In directly, she should thanks to her ex-husband...(just kidding..)..and for him...he just have to serve a little longer in the 'cell'. To you strong lady... there are still good men out there...so just give them a chance...!!!

Story 4

About this piece of story, I didn't expect this to happen as I know she was a nice lady, kind-hearted, intelligent, so calm and patience is always with her. Of course, she is very high educated and career women but yet never neglected her family. I never know since so many years knowing her, she has been in an ugly marriage life for the past 10 years. She tried to keep her marriage life as private as possible so that the ugliness of her ex husband character would not leak to anyone. Not only her ex-husband were having affairs with few 'low rank' women, he also hit and beat her. She told me he hit her till one day her ear drum injured badly that she was send to the hospital and she also had once miscarriage. And still she didn't make police report. The reason being, she still want to save the marriage for the sake of the kids.

She admited that she was being stupid because she loved him and the marriage. But I guess enough is enough, when recently she planned to file for divorce and egoisticaly her ex-husband divorced her before she could even file at the court. Well as for her ex-husband, he tried to be nice to his kids well, sorry to say...they are big enough to know 'who you are' and what you've done to her remarkable mother. As for you my friend, wake up! life is short just ignore him, pay attention just to yourself and your kids...So Move On!!!

Story 5

I consider the normal typical imperfect lady, having great kids, having professional husband and having good career but still, life isn't always perfect. Her husband betrayed her and considering he was never feel happy for the past years even the 2 kids came along to thier lives and while she was pregnant the 3rd, he found his 'true' love that he decided to divorce her way before she even delivered her 3rd child. Well the divorced process took place after the 3rd good looking baby delivered and as for her, she was quite prepared for it and she just prayed that one day all her sufferings will turn to thousands of happiness and full of blessings.

Her ex-husband married the 'disgrace' woman right after he was clearly 'unattached' as that was the condition to marry her. Anyway, life is full of miracle...the friend of mine ended her hurts and pains right after she was formally divorced because all she need was only her kids and maybe just here and there things to claim for her & kids' rights... But God works in miracle ways... Allah granted her real love and being love that she never found ever before.... It makes her life so meaningful and bless each and everyday.

For those who shared the stories with me...I urge you to keep on filling your life with love and attention to yourself and your kids (if you have any). Don't give up looking for happiness and pray hard because God knows what is best for you.

It is absolutely vital for you to move forward with life and love. Being willing to trust again is key. Take things one step at a time these points may help:

• Don't try to make sense out of nonsense.



• Rationalizing your cheating spouse's behavior or sympathizing with him/her is pointless.



• It is never OK to go outside of your relationship to solve problems within a relationship. It's not your fault.



• Time heals nothing. It is what you do with the time that matters.



• Remember that it is better to be healthy alone than sick with someone else.



• Remember, kids would rather be from a broken home than live in one.



• They're much better off with one well-adjusted, happy, thriving parent, than they are with two who are cheating, lying, fighting, and living with stress and pressure.
  
  
  

  As for the pathetic and ungrateful Men on this earth and all the low disgraceful 'bi****' in the world who feels great by ruining someone's family and leaving the kids heartbroken, well Remember... What comes around goes around... the best part, either he or you are not worth it. One day you'll cry much worst than those whom you hurt, untill your tears dried and turn to blood. Trust me, you will face that worst than us!!! So Good Luck then!!!

Songs and Lyrics

Before I start writing anything here... I would like to caution you that I am a lousy writer and I just write and speak whatever in my mind. So do mind my language, grammar and writing 'tone'.

I was feeling a little tired today... because trying to sort few things at the office and home... My travelling time to the office in morning took about 30 -45 minutes depending on the traffic condition as well as going back home. So those are the time where I pampered my ears with some music in my car...

Few days ago I managed to burn some songs on blank CDs that I found out of nowhere at home! Most of the songs are easy listening kind of songs...but what I want to share is this 2 songs that really made me feels like 'flying' and 'dreaming'... sometimes I hurmmm...such a cry baby...

Maybe ...just a big MAYBE... the melodies and the lyrics were so touching and beautiful... Infact someone dedicated the songs to me...(ehem..ehem...)... Well hopefully 'that person' knows at least I can be soft hearted in a different way...Thanks anyway!

The songs are "I'll be" by Edwin Mc Cain and "Tercipta Untukku" by Ungu...

I'll Be

The strands in your eyes

That color them wonderful

Stop me and steal my breath

And emeralds from mountains

Thrust towards the sky

Never revealing their depth

And tell me that we belong together

Dress it up with the trappings of loveI'll be captivated;

I'll hang from your lips

Instead of the gallows of heartache

That hangs from above

(Chorus)

I'll be your crying shoulder

I'll be love's suicide...I'll be better when I'm older

I'll be the greatest fan of your life

Rain falls angry on the tin roof

As we lie awake in my bed

And you're my survival

You're my living proof

My love is alive and not dead

And tell me that we belong together

Dress it up with the trappings of love

I'll be captivated;

I'll hang from your lips

Instead of the gallows of heartache

That hangs from above

(Chorus)

And I've dropped out, I've burned up

I fought my way back from the dead

Tuned in, turned on

Remembered the thing that you said

Tercipta Untuk Ku

menatap indahnya senyuman diwajahmu

membuat ku terdiam dan terpaku

mengerti akan hadirnya cinta terindah

saat kau peluk mesra tubuhku

banyak kata...yang tak mampu ku ungkapkankepada dirimu

Chorus:

Aku ingin engkau selalu

hadir dan temani aku

disetiap langkahyang meyakiniku

kau tercipta untukku sepanjang hidupku

aku ingin engkau selalu

hadir dan temani aku

disetiap langkah yang meyakiniku

kau tercipta untukku

meski waktu akan mampu

memanggil seluruh ragaku

ku ingin kau tau

ku selalu milikmu yang mencintaimu

sepanjang hidupku

aku ingin engkau selalu hadir dan temani aku

disetiap langkah yang meyakiniku

kau tercipta untukku

meski waktu akan mampu

memanggil seluruh ragaku

ku ingin kau tau

kuselalu milikmu yang mencintaimu

Getting Start!!!

Wow! I am so new in this...Well, I read, I commented, I used and I visited many many blogs in the net but not create my own blog.... I know it has been quite an ancient the 'bloggers' started and for quite sometimes my friends keep on pushing me to make my own blog! Because...I talked a lot and share lots of stuff with friends , relatives and those who know me.

At last...this is it...I dont know what and where to begin...but what I know it will direct from me, my heart and something to share for everyone to ponder...

Creating this blog was triggerred from my most favourite TV series...non other than 'Desperate Housewive', yesterday's episode ( I could not remember the title...huhuhu). Some people may think that the show was PG rated and not suitable for our Asian culture..bla bla bla...

Hey! Wake up you people! We are living in the sinful world nowadays.. .you cannot avoid all the bad and good influences, vibes, deeds and forces that have been all over you, your family and your life! For God sake...get real! Actually it is all in you...it is how you perceive and able to educate yourselves to choose the right path, right knowledge, right surroundings and right acquantance! Don't have to be hipocryte and naive at the same time...

So back to my best show 'Desperate Housewive's...(hey ABC should pay me commission for promoting their show!...wink! wink!)...For the past 5 seasons, I watched the shows ...my conclusion and perception of the show...is Great! I rated it 10/10. The show features by Teri Hatcher as Susan Mayer, Felicity Huffman as Lynette Scavo, Marcia Cross as Bree Van de Kamp and Eva Longoria Parker as Gabrielle Solis.

For those who watched and loved it...they know what I meant.... But for those who didnt watch it, let me tell you...especially LADIES...

You will learn how to be strong and manipulate certain circumstances in order for you to survive, being able to appreciate friendship, relationship, handle difficult situation in your family eg. children, husband, relatives , in-laws (trust me on that!) and best of the best ..the 'know-how' skill to handle MEN!...even you lose them...maybe it is worth than to keep them...because you may find there will be the 'best' yet to come...sexier ones perhaps!...hahahahaha!

Yesterday episode...well Gabrielle's was trying to get back in shape after few years being ignorance about it since her husband had accidentally blinded and now Carlos was able to see the light again...and she had to make sure no one is more attractive to Carlos eyes.. I was so hilarious about her determination.

The Miss perfect, Bree...may lost one of her best friend just because of her 'perfectionist' behaviour to be successful in her career..Then she realised that perfectionist in her made her im-perfect person to her family and friends.

Susan, as usual...try to be the best mom and try to be strong without men...but the reality cannot leave without love from men. She always feels lonely and vulnerable because she was too stupid!!!

But I love the way Lynnnette handle herself in any situation regarding her life, her love, her children, her husband and her life as a housewife...She has the strongest character that made she the best role that I adores. She gave up her highly paid career just to make sure her husband not to look 'dumb'. As a matter of fact, she does had a low IQ husband but cute ones...and of course to nurse and take care her 4 uncontrollable sons by herself.

However the show need to be PG due to certain scene you will be 'trapped' once the kids 'accidentally' saw and you better know how to answer.

In all...I think those characters are the nature of women in anyway...don't deny it...but just think it over...

Well after watching Desperarte Housewives, I watched 'America's Next Top Model'( could not remember what season eh..)...the motivation after watched the show...is...I will know how 'ugly' I am...so I need to maintain certain things if not being able to achive certain 'thing'...

Well Monday nights for me is all about Women...because I was borne on the World's Women Day! 8 March !!!! You Go Gurl!!!

Nurin

Tues, 26 may 09